Do You Really Know Whose Blog You're Reading?
One of the most interesting things about blogging is that you get inside the heads of people you would have otherwise never met. You don't really know who they are and you don't really know what they're like, but you get familiar with their online persona. And then one day one of them murders a 10-year-old girl. Pretty fucked up.
posted by Matt at 12:34 PM
6 Comments:
NO you don't know whose blog you are reading and for all we know you could be a 50 year old toothless old bag.....
you posted this comment in response to
my comment on fickle girls' blog:
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"Bloody hell... I feel like I'm drowning in a sea of estrogen... Those of you commenting here who claim to be sexually mature are actually very socially unaware as you are only basing your opinions on your own experiences. Maybe you do need an emotional connection to enjoy sex, but there are those of us who have pure animal passion. I, as a guy, do like the thrill of the chase (I pursued my current girlfriend for 6 months before we got it together), but I also like sex for the sake of it, and know many women who are the same. I think that the difference between the 'younger generation' and those that have come before us is that sex is no longer regarded as a sacred act between two married people and can be enjoyed by anyone. I'm sure you'll find that rather than being turned off by what they read here, most guys would love to know NF.
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fickle girl has now made her comments subject to her approval so i can't respond to you on there so here goes---first i am not basing my comments on my own experience...there is a lot of research-based information on sexuality and relationships and i have read quite a bit about this topic..i suggest you start doing the same thing..
second
you are a 26 year old man-sized boy so of course you approve of sex without emotion ..you are still ruled by your penis...but if you are really honest with yourself you'll admit that meaningful sex does not happen between strangers and that's what people are to each other for several months. It takes TIME to get to know someone.
There seem to be stages that women go through in realizing what they actually want from sexual relations. The first stage is called the “coming out” stage. These are usually women in high school or the first years of college. This is when a woman first begins to test her sexuality. She wants to know how attractive she is, and she becomes competitive with her friends. These women feel good about themselves when men want to hook up with them. They don’t believe that you need to be emotionally involved with a man before having sex. They aren’t yet aware that they may feel unsettled by their wanting some investment from a man, and the man not giving it. This is has all been researched and established it is not just my opinion...i could post more about it but i am out of time...suggest you research stages 2 & 3 which are
called “awareness and denial" [stage 2] and
"rejection of casual sex" [stage 3]
Wow, thanks for the biology lesson - I read that textbook too. But I'm basing my comments on actual experiences with real people. If you take a look outside you might meet some too. I never said anything about meaningful sex in my comment, I just tried to point out that everyone is different and some people (even girls) enjoy it for the sake of it.
However, you can continue trying to educate the world, one blogger at a time...
Thanks for visiting!
i have been outside plenty and i know there are some people enjoy sex for the sake of sex....
these are mostly young people who are experimenting was my point..
when you get older you will probably discover
this: if two people are not excited by who they are outside of sex, there's a law of diminishing returns in bed.
their first few sexual encounters have the intricacy and mystery of discovering
someone's sexual personality--but what is the progress of sex in the absence of fascination..?
yes, people can try to inspire themselves with blindfolds and bondage, and other
kinky stuff but the more you're playing games, the less you're playing with each other. ....
you may also discover when you are older and wiser that sex is easy but love is hard...
Sex is possible with someone you don't know....love is not....and for me, if there is not going to be any love then the sex is therefore going to become kind of sad........
hey--did you notice of fickle girl's blog there is a glaring grammar error?
"Update on Irish and I"
should be
"Update on irish and me"..
Nancy - I'm not exactly sure why you're over here nailing down your point. I've been in a steady relationship for the last four years. I was simply commenting on NF girl's blog because I don't think people like you should be preaching to her about the life she chooses to lead.
Thanks for pointing out the grammatical error though. I'll be dining out on that one for weeks.
hammering down my point?
preaching?
is that the wy i am coming across to you?
i was responding to you--i think because
i am older and married i might have a few insights
into relationships .....
or do you just want responses from nincompoops who post
"I think your handsome"??
Nancy - I'm afraid you are coming across a bit like that. I haven't asked for any advice on relationships but you seem quite happy to dish it out...
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